人类的关系始于施与受，而施与受又开启了我们的清白与罪疚的经验。这是因为，一方带着期待而付出，接受的一方则感觉自己背负着回报的义务。一方带着期待，另一方则感受到义务，如此一来，造就了每一段关系中的罪疚与清白，也使付出与接受的两方交换位置；除非最终的施与受达到平衡，否则无论是付出或接受的一方，都不会满意。这意味着接受的一方将有机会付出，而付出的一方也必须能够接受。 无论快乐与否，当我们接受了别人的礼物，我们也失去了独立与清白。当我们接受时，会觉得对给予者有所亏欠，我们会因亏欠而感到不舒服，并且努力回报以使自己释放这样的压力。每一份礼物背后，都有这样的代价。另一方面，当我们不求回报地给予某人或是付出大于回报时，通常会以愉悦的方式经验到清白感，也就是当我们不亏欠任何人、无所求或没有得到任何赠予时，我们通常会有轻松而自由的愉悦感。 当施与受能够平衡，我们才能经...(展开全部)

《在爱中升华》是家庭系统排列大师海灵格首创的家庭系统排列思想的理论奠基之作，全面总结、阐述了海灵格对于包括自由、良知、亲密关系、亲子关系等众多主题在内的众多领域的思索与见解。 本书*的特色是全面展示了海灵格对他所研究的几乎所有领域的观点和思索。这些领域还包括关系中的罪恶与清白、良知、亲子关系与群体中爱的序位、亲密关系以及个体与群体之间的关系、家庭疾病的成因与疗愈、如何迈向和谐，等等。 本书可以使读者了解海灵格系统排列思想普遍适用的意义，并体验这些思想在不同领域内的运用。

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The idea for "Philosophy in a Time of Terror" was born hours after the terrorist attacks on 9/11 and came to realization just weeks later when Giovanna Borradori sat down with Jurgen Habermas and Jacques Derrida, in separate interviews, in New York City. Guided by Borradori, Habermas and Derrida evaluated the significance of the most destructive terrorist attack ever perpetrate...(展开全部)

The idea for "Philosophy in a Time of Terror" was born hours after the terrorist attacks on 9/11 and came to realization just weeks later when Giovanna Borradori sat down with Jurgen Habermas and Jacques Derrida, in separate interviews, in New York City. Guided by Borradori, Habermas and Derrida evaluated the significance of the most destructive terrorist attack ever perpetrate...(展开全部)

In a world filled with both enormous wealth and pockets of great devastation, how should the well-off respond to the world's needy? This is the urgent central question of Being Good in a World of Need. Larry S. Temkin, one of the world's foremost ethicists, challenges common assumptions about philanthropy, his own prior beliefs, and the dominant philosophical positions of Peter...(展开全部)

This powerful memoir by New York Times bestselling author Amy Bloom is an illuminating story of two people whose love leads them to find a courageous way to part—and of a woman’s struggle to go forward in the face of loss. “What a book this is—full of everything that matters . . . gripping, moving, and beautifully told.”—Meg Wolitzer, author of The Female Persuasion ONE OF THE ...(展开全部)

This powerful memoir by New York Times bestselling author Amy Bloom is an illuminating story of two people whose love leads them to find a courageous way to part—and of a woman’s struggle to go forward in the face of loss. “What a book this is—full of everything that matters . . . gripping, moving, and beautifully told.”—Meg Wolitzer, author of The Female Persuasion ONE OF THE ...(展开全部)

A Way of Being was written in the early 1980s, near the end of Rogers' career, and serves as a coda to his classic On Becoming a Person. More philosophical than his earlier writings, it traces his professional and personal development. Rogers concludes by predicting a more humane future.